The National Parenting Training Programme (NPTP) manual contributes
to Kenya’s National Parenting Programme using a multi-sectoral approach,
grounded in a commitment to nurturing care. NPTP primary focus is on parenting;
improving how parents’ approach and execute their parental roles on: parenting
knowledge, attitudes, skills, behaviors, and practices. The program provides
parenting education and family support services to enable families to create safe
and stable environment for children thrive.
Maurine Neema a parent to three children aged between 6 and 14 years is an active participant in the parenting group. Neema believes that the skills and knowledge she has acquired will go a long way in strengthening her relationship with her husband and children leading to a happy and productive family.
“Before the
program, I could not sit with my husband and discuss important issues touching
on our children and household. I have learnt; peace, joy and love brings’ a lot
of security to children who feel more appreciated and loved. I did not know how
to discipline my child. My husband and I thought that by beating our son or
yelling and shouting at him when he came late from school was right. But we
were just pushing him away. Little did I know that I was driving the boy away
and he became more resentful and did not participate in helping with the chore
like his siblings. His grades started dropping in school and often times I was
called for meetings because of his indiscipline cases. It was frustrating and
draining me mentally.” Says Neema.
The NPTP is implemented weekly in different parenting groups in Magarini Ganze and Kaloleni sub counties in Kilifi through the support of Lay Volunteers Councils (LVCs) and Child Protection Volunteers (CPVs) from different locations.
Rebecca Dambala an LVC trained on Positive Parenting in Sabaki, Magarini sub county states. “We have fewer men attending the parenting group. Male involvement on Parenting issues is still a great challenge.”
Neema also
highlights, “After the positive parenting sessions with madam Rebecca, “I changed my approach towards my
parenting style and now I am seeing positive changes. Indeed “Mtoto umleavyo ndivyo akuavyo. The
topic on “Strong and secure attachments” opened my eyes to the fact that
children have different needs at each stage. It is not enough to just
provide food but children need love, protection and reassurance. I
started spending more time with him and talking about different issues i.e.,
school, friends, careers etc. He is slowly opening up to me. His father communication
skills are less aggressive and they both engage in outdoor activities with my
son. Truly, positive communication works! I understand he also has feelings,
emotions like any other human being. I am thankful to ICS SP for changing lives
through this program.”
Through the program Neema’s family bond has been strengthened and they all engage in farming activities together. Their son’s grade has improved and they pray for him to become a role model to other children in their community.
